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golden showers 8/26/2004
has anyone heard of - the water of life - book I think it is
called, Well it is about the pros of drinking your own urine
for health reasons. i have tried it and though i do feel that
there is truth in the book i find it difficult to do it every
day as it suggests one should. i wonder if the same is true
of drinking others urine as this i would happily do as part
of my duties as a sub on a ...
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Knowing one's self 8/25/2004
After years of trying to find myself through others, I finally
realized that I had to know myself intimately before knowing
others. After experiencing an epiphany, I wrote the following
and thought I'd share it here.
<br>
<br>
Who am i?
<br>
You think you know me, but do you? Do you really know me? Do
you know all of me? Maybe it's time to break it down,
to ...
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Re: ladies just a question 8/23/2004
There are many reasons that I may not answer an initial e-mail.
1. The opening line: if the opening line tries to order me
around, or calls me vulgar names, I won't respond,
or if I do, it is to tell the person off.
**********I will respond to a polite email inquiring if
I am interested in further communications.
2. The e-mail is poorly written, inchoherent, mis-spelled, ...
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37 Votes
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What is the Zone? 8/22/2004
I have been interested in BDSM for a while and even had a little
experience with a couple where I live..I have heard of couples
who talk about the "ZONE".That is a place where
the Dom loves to take his sub and the loves to be.I think one
friend even called it the plain?? Can someone please explain
what this feels like when this is reached .Why the sub likes
this feeling so much? The women I ...
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Re: What is Real Time 8/19/2004
Yes that is true, for you. If your situation prevents you
from getting out then yes of course what you do is real time.
The difference between the "Online" and "Real
Time" people is this: The ones that think the lifestyle
is a game. People that "say" they want to meet,
but then really only want to be "pseudo" Dominated,
Dominating, or what have you, while the pretense of yes
yes I want ...
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19 Votes
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Give it to us straight. 8/16/2004
Ladies, here's a clue about how men work. We're
pretty thick headed. Subtlety is something we generally
lack and we are generally unable to read between the lines.
If you are not interested in a guy, say so! Be blunt. We can
take it. Our coaches/dads used to chew us a new one regularly
when we fouled up yet we got the message and moved on. Don't
try and be nice about it. Just tell us the ...
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22 Votes
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1st time party host....help!! 8/15/2004
I'm about to co-host my first sex party.
Would love to have some advice on party etiquette etc, after
all I want my guests to have a sexy and memorable time.
Don't want the scenario of every school disco - standing
against the wall and not participating!!
Any advice gratefully received as I may make this a regular
event.
Thanks
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82 Views,
12 Votes
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He has been bad 8/14/2004
My boy has been bad. Masturbating without permission,
not being attentive to his Mistress, and blaming work for
the overall misbehavior. Not acceptable. The chastity
belt has been ordered, but it will take more than that for
me to retrain this puppy. Suggestions please!!!
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ladies just a questin for you, and my point of view 8/11/2004
I have been on alt.com off and on for about 2 years now,
I have had all kinds of pictures and I have talked to some
of the most beautiful women I have ever seen.
<br>
The question I have is for all the ladies who are on alt.com
right now.
<br>
why not return a letter?
I want to get some opinions on why and why not to return a letter
from a person who wants to ...
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Deleting Photos 8/11/2004
If you are using XP right click and select [erase], not delete.
Or you can download a free eraser (what's what I use).
Just go to a search engine and look for a secure eraser. Erase
it from where it is stored, like doc. or dest top, etc. You
can get an excellent encryption program with a shredder
online, also free.
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5 Votes
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Heads uo for CT Dommes!! 7/21/2004
Just figured I'd alert you all to a real sneaky player,
lol. Watch out for "blueboy1717" on Alt.com.
A real nasty piece of work. This could also be easily addressed
to any Dommes in the NYC, PA, NJ, NH, MA, RI areas as well,
because this sleaze likes to travel. His name & address
are available from me for verification if you have concerns.
Stay safe & be well friends.
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12 Votes
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Points to Ponder 7/17/2004
I have been contacted by many Doms through this site that
I have chosen not to meet and here is the main reason:
<br>
While chatting, im-ing or mailing, most of them have been
absolutely obsessed with showing me how dominant they
were or were going to be, instead of first seeing what we
may have in common with any relationship, sexual or otherwise,
we may wish to pursue.
...
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30 Votes
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Reply to Committment Issues 7/16/2004
DripsHoney4U touches on such a heart wrenching subject,
how to get past the pain of the past and be able to move on to
the potential of the future.
<br>
The are no guarantees when it comes to the possibility of
making mistakes, life is a game of chance.
<br>
So you give the wound time to heal, reflect on the lessons
learned, and move on.
<br>
Don't let the ...
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9 Votes
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I'm obsessed 7/16/2004
I am having an extremely hard time focusing on what is real,
and what is not. It seems that once I started reading up on
the D/s life style the more intrigued I became. I searched
for a long time, and met with a Dominant here on alt. It was
quite an experience... one I will never forget.
However, now it seems I think about D/s all the time. When
I am showering, on my computer, and ...
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Re: Bondage Furniture, Inconspicuous Suspension Points and Headboard/Canopy Bed advice 7/13/2004
I have suspesion points in my basement, and now have also
been considering a suspension point for my bedroom. If
your celing is made of drywall, you could find a ceiling
joist using a stud finder, cut a square, or circular opening
in the drywall around the joist, with the joist running
down the middle of the opening. Attach your anchor point
(like a heavy eyebolt) to the side of the of ...
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77 Votes
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Re: response to Suspension Tech 7/13/2004
I would not attach any size screw eye bold to the face of a
joist, because since the weight will be applied vertically
along the lenght of screw, the size of the screw is not what
will be holding up the weitght of the load, it's the
threads of the screw, and density of the wood touching these
threads.
<br>
The safer way to use a joist is to attach the eyelet screw
to the side ...
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6 Votes
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ONE WAY OR ANOTHER, WHETHER YOU MEN WANT TO.................... 7/8/2004
ALL MEN PAY FOR SEXUAL GRATIFICATION ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.
SO, MEN PLEASE START ADMITTING IT AND DON'T DENY IT
ANY LONGER OR COULD IT POSSIBLY BE THAT SOME MEN ARE NAIVE
TO THIS PROVEN FACT.
THINK ABOUT IT, IF YOU PAY A PROFESSIONAL TO DO WHAT IT IS
YOU LIKE, AT LEAST YOU KNOW YOU WILL GET WHAT IT IS YOU PAID
FOR AND IT WAS ALL WORTH IT.
WHETHER YOU WANT TO BELIEVE IT OR NOT YOU ARE ...
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27 Votes
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Finding YourMatch Safely, Part 8 7/4/2004
Finding Your Match Safely, Part 8
Psychopathic Subs, Part 3
Part 6 (1) was posted on 6/22/04
Part 7 (2) was posted on 6/26/04
<br>
7-The abused :
This one isn’t mine. It comes from a Dom who read part 6 and
decided to contribute. What I’m going to do here is tell
his story in my words.
Let’s call the Dom Bill. Bill, like me, has a playroom and
a ...
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25 Votes
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Want to find Different Ways of Masturbation 7/3/2004
I am bored by doing masturbation sameway all the time--You
know jerking off by hand. Can anyone tell me any variations?Please
donot advice me any electronic tools-I donot like them
at all.
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17 Votes
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A Bit of Advice 7/1/2004
I’ve been reading more articles lately and I’ve noticed
several complaints that go something like “I can’t meet
anyone on this site” or “What does it take to get kinky here?”
and others to that effect. And, I’ve noticed that most are
from men.
<br>
Fellas, let me give you a bit of unsolicited advice. When
I browse the listing of Men Looking for Women, I find ...
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how to keep her 6/28/2004
I have met a wonderful woman on this site. She is my sub. She
is everything I could ever dream for in a woman. The sex is
beyond belief. She is completely submissive to me in every
way sexually, she begs for my cum in her mouth , she begs for
anal, she is multi orgasmic, dresses exactly as i tell her
to do, and constantly tells me , she will do anything I ask.
We get along well non ...
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13 Votes
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How can a submissive like me find a sensual mistress 6/28/2004
Any advice for me. I go to fetish clubs, but I am kind of shy.
I long to serve, but it is tough to find a dominant. As much
as I enjoy serving pro's, I am in a better position to
spoil with my time and effort than with money. Am waiting
for that beautiful dom that may agree with me.
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6 Votes
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Re:Trust 6/26/2004
In the article you posted about difficulty with trusting
someone after a betrayal, you also mentioned domestic
violence as being part of a past relationship. While that
is a terrible reality for many it doesn't have to be
ongoing. Betrayal of trust is a form of abuse. The person
who has lied to you has caused you emotional pain. In order
to avoid this happening again and again, examining ...
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Finding YourMatch Safely, Part 7 6/26/2004
Finding Your Match Safely, Part 7
Psychopathic Subs, Part 2
Part 6 was (posted on 6/22/04)
Now, back to our regularly scheduled programming…
4-The ICBM: For those of you who didn’t grow up in the 60’s
with the daily threat of a nuclear holocaust hanging over
your heads, let me explain what an ICBM is. It stands for
Inter-Continental-Ballistic-Missile. The ...
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12 Votes
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Let your fantasy shine! 6/24/2004
Add photos to your listing that show who you are.
<br>
Ideas on finding a photographer to work with:
<br>
Look for photographers on ALT.
<br>
Offer to model for photo classes at a local college.
<br>
If you like photography take a class and get to know others
with this interest.
<br>
Thoughts on what you can do to help the photographer: ...
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Finding YourMatch Safely, Part 6 6/22/2004
Finding Your Match Safely, Part 6
<br>
Hello again. This is part 6 of the above-mentioned series.
It’s also part 1 of a sub-series called “Psychopathic Subs”.
It’s primarily designed for newbies but I think everyone
else might get a chuckle or two out of it.
If you’ve been on Alt for longer than fifteen minutes, you’re
already painfully aware of the fact ...
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16 Votes
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TRUST 6/19/2004
Once you have given ur all to someone and ur 100% trust witch
takes some doing when u have had it battered in the past.
When they give ur trust a kick how do u cope? Do u ever get it
back as it was? Wot can u do to try and put it back?
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7 Votes
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love of silk and lace 6/17/2004
Hi all, seeking some advice on my fetish. I love wearing
womens lingerie, i'm straight but can't get enough
of it. My partner wants me to stop but has known of my fasination
since day dot. Any ideas on how to handle this?
3 Comments,
86 Views,
3 Votes
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Men should be clean shaven. 6/16/2004
Men should be clean shaven. Its better for the women and
the man. She can shave him or she can have someone else shave
him. Fun for everyone. Its a great trend and I hope everyone
starts doing it. Looking forward to see it when I go to the
gym.
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25 Views,
24 Votes
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Women shave your man. 6/16/2004
Men need to shave their hair. Men should be smooth. Its clean,
nice looking, and makes cleanup easy. You will look bigger
too.
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