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I stopped drinking back in 1991. Haven't had any alcohol since. Yes you can change!
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Congratulations!!! You made a big change.
I agree with you. People only change if THEY want to. Usually it's literally a life changing event that sparks it - a near death kind of thing.
Near death .... thats tough to arrange
As a man that was verbally molested growing up, for example my permanent handle was fag or something to that effect when my older brother would address me. This had an impact in my formative years that subsequently his escalation to cock blocking all my romantic interests and then cuckholding me behind my back took a tole that left me with a bad meth habit and a complex that was better left outside of any romantic interests and lent itself to trolling on grindr for dudes with meth and an appreciation for a magnificent and majestic penis such as mine. This changed after i went back to college and started to fall in love with myself and rediscover self worth and then low and behold my dream girl falls into my lap only after i dropped the meth habit and just basically changed everything and now she is helping me recover my sexual identity with bringing women into our bedroom which is so validating after my history. So as long as any man wants to change any fucking man can change.
Bravo! Good for you!!
I think people who want change, will make change
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I reckon to say that men never change is a generalisation. I know some men who will never change but by the same token I know loads of men who have changed. I agree that a person only ever wants to change when they see that there current situation is harming others. I don’t drink. I used to and I know that in certain situations I was a pain in the ass when I had been drinking. My family were more important to me than drinking and I changed because I wanted to. It’s a personal thing but whatever it is that makes you who you are can be changed to perhaps make you a better person regardless of gender or where your leanings are.
I think we can all change if properly motivated
@PonyGirl1965 Exactly. The motivation is all you need
This is very interesting. My sister is a boomer, and so stubborn. She'll never change, and that pisses me off.
LOL Her and my brother. They enjoy their bad habits and have zero desire to change.
Me? I change every day, LOL.
@PonyGirl1965 Bad habits? Mine are all good.
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You have to be motivated to change irregardless of your gender or sexuality!
True.
If he would not change for you, he never will, same with a woman.. Without trying rehab and seeing how that goes, Forget about it. If they go to rehab abd fall back again, move on and enjoy life,
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I think the idea is to have the nadir of any situation not too low. Recognize it as a potential problem and change while it's relatively mild if you will.
Thanks for contributing to HNW in your own way 😁
People won’t change unless they truly want to. Kids are great motivators, but the willingness and commitment to change has to be there. It’s much easier to stay in a bad place and whine.
You are right and I am so sick of people whining, LOL.
@PonyGirl1965
There's never enough cheese to go with the whine 😂
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Oh golly. No they don’t. Try me.
You are right people only change if they admit their mistakes . If they are in denial no outside help will make a difference. If the denial is part of of a persons personality trait then almost impossible to change .
You are right! Denial can be part of their personality. Narcissistic people usually feel they are the victims. They deny any responsibility.
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I believe people can change. However, it is difficult and easy to back slide without support and motivation.
Support has a lot to do with change. I know I like the praise and affirmation
As long as someone is alive there is always hope for change, the motivation has to be the catalyst ~
I believe that every person is different and those kinds of changes are on a case by case basis. The same person may change one bad behavior but not another.
They have to want to change
That person you talked to...what a weird take on it. For one thing, gay people can have children.
Some things are easier to change than others. I think a lot of predispositions are genetic. It takes a very strong person (or in some cases, the right meds) to overcome that.
It's funny to me that when I pondered it, all my gay friends have kids. Some together and some before they entered into the relationship. And one adopted 3 kids on his own. He is incredible
And here I thought the picture was a play on the song, save a horse ride a cowboy, but ride a cowgirl instead.